In the latest episode of our Leadership Story Talks podcast, Jerome and Julienne dive deep into the complexities of leadership with expert Brad Farris. As leaders, we often find ourselves caught in a cycle of wanting to be liked, leading us to fall into what Brad calls the ‘nice ditch.’ This episode explores the importance of self-leadership, authenticity, and the delicate balance between being nice and being effective.
Brad shares a personal story from his early career, where he faced the daunting challenge of making decisions as a young general manager. He reflects on how the pressure to appear knowledgeable led him to adopt a ‘fake it till you make it’ approach, which ultimately resulted in feelings of imposter syndrome. This experience catalyzed his journey toward understanding that true leadership comes from a place of vulnerability and authenticity.
Listeners will learn about the critical shift from being a leader who simply reacts to problems to one who embraces self-leadership. Brad emphasizes that before we can lead others effectively, we must first understand and lead ourselves. He introduces the concept of self-leadership assessments, a valuable tool for identifying growth opportunities in our leadership journey.
Throughout the episode, we discuss how clarity in communication can foster a culture of trust and openness within teams. Brad highlights the importance of having difficult conversations and how being direct can actually be a form of kindness, aligning with Brene Brown’s notion that ‘clarity is kindness.’
As we explore the challenges of growing a business, Brad shares insights on the importance of relinquishing control and allowing team members to contribute to the decision-making process. He discusses how many leaders struggle with this transition, often feeling that their identity is tied to being the one in control. However, by empowering others and communicating core values effectively, leaders can create an environment where everyone thrives.
This episode is a must-listen for anyone looking to enhance their leadership skills, navigate workplace dynamics, and create a lasting impact. Join us as we uncover the stories behind real-world leadership challenges and provide practical insights to help you lead with empathy, authenticity, and purpose.
LISTEN HERE to this engaging conversation with Brad Farris and take the first step towards evolving your leadership style!
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